Learning to Slow Down
Learning to slow down—and perhaps learning how to retire—is much harder than I ever imagined.
How do you let go of something you have spent nearly 20 years building? Old Urban Trolley is strong, and I still truly love what I do. I love being part of your weddings, celebrations, corporate events, and so many of life’s most special occasions. This business has been much more than a job to me—it has been a huge part of my heart and my life.
But I have reached a season when my family needs more of me, too. My grandchildren are growing quickly, and their calendars are filled with games, activities, and special moments I cannot get back. Last year, I did not make it to a single football game where my then 10-year-old granddaughter cheered. That realization hit me hard.
Saturdays have always been the busiest days for Old Urban Trolley, but they are also the days when my family needs me most. As much as I wish I could be everywhere, I simply cannot—and I am learning that it is okay to slow down.
Moving forward, I will be stepping back from some of the day-to-day events. You may not always see me personally, but you will still be in the caring and capable hands of wonderful team members such as Megan, Tommy, or Shannon Jo. They understand how important your occasion is and will continue providing the dependable, personal service Old Urban Trolley is known for.
After much thought, prayer, and more than a few tears, I have also decided to offer Old Urban Trolley for sale as a complete business. The right new owner would assume all current reservations and honor every commitment already made.
Regardless of whether the business sells as a whole, I have made the difficult decision to sell our beloved Okie Dokie the Trolley following our June 2027 events. Therefore, we will not accept any new reservations for Okie Dokie after June 30, 2027.
She is a jewel. She is a treasure. She has carried thousands of people through some of the happiest and most meaningful moments of their lives—and letting her go will be incredibly emotional for me.
This is not a complete goodbye. I will continue accepting events with JOY JOY, our shuttle bus, and THE TULSAN, our Sprinter. For now, though, I need to slow down a little, trust the wonderful people around me, and make room to be where I am needed most—with my precious family.
Thank you for trusting me and Old Urban Trolley with your memories all these years. It has been one of the greatest honors of my life. ❤️
